Personally choose to share experiences and stories instead of burdens, which then complained by a friend, that she feels outdated. Times where anger overwhelms the mind, thus having tons of words to be said, which then being held back so that the probability of offending a person is lower, as the chaos we have already caused is more than enough. It is an attitude which may not be so applicable in the eyes of many, at least to some particular groups, where they think a person should let the words out despite the fact that he is pissed; regardless the content and that understanding will be built thereafter. Sometimes wonder, are we the ones who responsible on what we are to do and to speak? Or it is our emotions instead? Either one, the effect is significant enough to bring us to the top or even, breaking the trust between two. Very often, we use the term ‘puppet’ whenever one is controlled by the other; in this case, are we one of those puppets to our emotions? Or perhaps to our actions and words spoken? Or even to ourselves? Anyhow, the responsibility is there, the choice is there and when we decided on one, we are automatically responsible on what we are to take and to face; as we are the puppets to our decisions, the words to be said and the actions to be taken, we are the puppets to ourselves.
