Whenever the topics being related to sex in any form at all, most people take it as something to be ashamed of, a restricted area for any approaches; be it the jokes or knowledge. What’s worse, to be called a pervert when the conversations touch on sex and sort, not in the form of harassment but discussion; a perversion from the definition of pervert when it is merely earthy and open-minded. The truth is, the desire is in us, or else the human race would have been extinct long ago. Does not matter whether a male or female, both have the similar needs, from different angle and perspectives. Indeed we should respect the privacy of others and it is definitely their choice and their right whether to share or the other way round; however, that does not mean the whole world must not do what they want to do when one is against it, as long as it does not bring harm to others or any living beings, crushing their pride and offending people. When we want the rest of the world to respect us, our thoughts and the decisions being made, we must first respect them; when we want to unite all powers and strengths, we must first take the boundaries and differences in perspectives into account; when we dislike people discussing the topics we think should be kept among themselves, we tell and not discriminate them, nor judge them and criticize them.