Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Hurt & Being Hurt

Disappointment, regret and guilty; whenever we hurt someone else, whenever we see the people we love being hurt, especially when we are the one who hurt the others. Also, when we fail ourselves and the people we care for, when we do not achieve their expectation, when we are not as good as we think we are. Always, we tend to hurt the feelings of others, with or without us realizing it and always, we tend to get hurt over the most insignificant word one has said. We go overboard, we overreact and we not willing to let go just like that. Is it our attitude by nature of not forgiving the others easily and the actions taken by us or the rest of the world? That the past is still haunting us and the memories, hence causing us not able to open up, even to the dearest? When we know damage has been done, we not necessary take actions in order to fix things up, for we may not know how and what to do, not forgetting that we like to put things aside, waiting for the day where it automatically goes back to the good old days; even if we do know what can be done, we might not have the courage to fulfill our duty, in the sense of putting the pieces back together. Perhaps this is just the way it is, where we need a gentle reminder on what we are dealing and how we are suppose to handle it, where we sometimes forget our capability and strength, where we tend to keep it in mind that we have failed the others and us; or maybe, we need more than just a reminder about the fact that we have hurt the people we love and sometimes, we ourselves.