When we heard one particular couple has broken up, a friend commented saying, “I thought he’s committed in the relationship.” Frankly speaking, we do commit ourselves in our doings, but the question is how long it will be. Back to the simplest concept; who we are may not equal to who we were and what we do might not be the same as what we did. When we love, we love and when we don’t, it doesn’t mean that we never did. If we are not committed, we wouldn’t even get ourselves into troubles of solving questions and overcoming the obstacles ahead; if we are not committed, we wouldn’t have made the decision of going forward instead of living in the past; if we are not committed, we may not even bother to make the decisions in our lives. Committed or not is not the issue, but the limit of our commitments, in which may last for minutes, hours, days, months or even years, varying from one individual to another.
