Sunday, December 7, 2008

Back Out = Chances

A good soldier knows when to back out; we should know when to hand things over, especially when the decision is no longer in our hands or perhaps, when it is about time. It is not a must to be emotional for months over the loss of a relationship and there is no such necessity that we shut ourselves away from many others due to a failure. We’ve been hurt so bad that we don’t need extra scars on the outside and it is simply foolish to do so when we know it does not worth it; we know there are plenty of choices out there rather than just one and it is time we stop telling ourselves that is the only one. It isn’t that hard to put things aside, though there are times where it isn’t easy to make the decision of doing so; however, it can be done. Hence, it is no surprise when someone can accomplish the task given, by forgetting a relationship and never the person involved. One door closes, two doors open; ending a relationship is not equivalent to ending our lives as we have to move on, backing out from a life-risking situation is not equivalent to giving up our future as we’ll wait for the chances to strike once again.