Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Ever Wanted

How much time have we spent on thinking about the ever wanted? That we want to be with this particular person, that we would like to go for this dream and not that, that we want to score straight A’s, that we want to lead a successful life and many more. We have people who interview a person before he is to be the friend, who refer to the qualification list when they are to choose a partner, who eliminate one after another when the unwanted ‘symptoms’ are found in within. From time to time, there are questions often being asked, range from the types of people we like to what we don’t like to be served in food, and of course, not forgetting the things which we ever wanted in life, but frankly, how many can come up with an answer for that particular question? How many do know and well understand of what they want and what they need? A quote taken from a friend, if we know what to do but not how to do it, what do we actually know? Similarly, if we know what we want but not how to get it, what do we actually know? When we are complaining the others on how they have behaved, we first listen to the complaints on how we have been; when we are thinking about what we wanted the most, we first think how we would think when we have finally reached our goal; we may have changed our mind at the very end or we may not, we never know, for there would be a higher demand when the time has come. Ever wanted can be temporary or permanent, depending on our views and desires; when we are thirst for more, the ever wanted we first aimed would be no end, as we are to climb to a higher mountain; when we know when and how to stop, we get what we wanted in the first place, where the others may be thinking we are such a waste. It remains still as the mystery, to us and to all, if we actually have the ever wanted, in life.