Very often, we have people who would take the blame for everything possible, as if it will make them feel much better, which happens to be the other way round; whenever not being accepted by that particular person, whenever not able to reach the expectation of one, whenever not doing a fine job in fixing the situation and many more. Sometimes wonder, why do we even want to be better, when we couldn’t make ourselves to feel it that way, when we are hypnotizing ourselves that we will not make it to the top, when we are trying so hard to prove that we can’t? Indeed, there will be times where we made the wrong decision, chose the wrong word, pratised the wrong attitude; however, it does not mean that it will be our fault for eternity, for the rest of our lives whereby we have to carry the name of once made a wrong move, as it will be changed and we will be, somehow, someday. We don’t take the blame, but we accept the mistake, our mistakes; we don’t hold on tight to something we shouldn’t be and we know it, we don’t make ourselves feel bad in order to cheer a person up when the effect is actually the other way round, we don’t jump into conclusion that we will fail everything that come to our hands; we don’t, we don’t.
