Monday, July 21, 2008

Accept Unacceptable

It has been quite a while since the last incident where friends had been turned into frenemies, where precautions have to be taken ever since, not only in the sense of preventing the similar chaos from taking place, but also well aware of the ongoing happening; times where one is disgusted by the other due to the previous unpleasant experiences, building up fences around, in case that particular person is to bring the history back to live. Typical people who not know the term of letting go. It is not a sin to carry the past around, for we are human beings and we certainly have memories, to keep track on our life style, to know what and how we have been doing, to learn about our existence; however, we are the one who should take control of them, not letting the past life haunts us, having them to control our mindset instead. Looking at the person who we once disliked, we may still feel the same or, we’ve changed our perspectives, having ourselves to see them from a different angle, knowing they are somehow capable of doing work, able to see the efforts they intend to put in, though there are the times where we got dragged back into the black hole, not able to come out from the never ending pitfalls of memories for the several seconds. Highly aware, yet wanting to let go the past time history of ours; we close our eyes for minutes, and back on track to accept the once unacceptable.