Was told not to break promises, trust, hearts and relationships, for they hurt so badly though we may not hear it. Breaking promises is one way of losing trust others have for us; when we do, we might proceed to breaking one’s heart; even cut off the bonding between two, causing changes in relationship and worse, becoming history. We have many ways in solving problems, overcoming the obstacles and similarly, there are different pathways which would eventually lead us to heart-breaking moments, writing a whole new history in our chapters of life. Hurting one’s feelings can be as easy as a piece of cake, for all we need is to be harsh and straight to the point, be it directly or indirectly, where the words would stab through the hearts without much difficulty. However, somehow it seems to be necessary when it comes to feeling hurt, going through difficult moments with all the heartbreaking incidents, forming and breaking promises and so on. There are times where we not know a promise has been made; where the trust in between is not sufficient enough to overcome certain level of doubts and capability; where the hearts are broken by a few words from a friend or foe, the love ones and the strangers; where we lose several relationships due to time, distance, physicality, mentality, spirituality and the chemistry, not only in the sense of partnership but also friendship and other bonding. Once read a phrase saying, if our lives have been so smooth that we feel no threats, no depression, no other negative emotions, we did not live. Perhaps that would differentiate us from walking zombies. Would it?
