“When we have pains, we don’t have to be one,” another inspiring quote taken from the site. Every now and then, people who have been through several heart aches and can no longer handle it, might eventually break down, sometimes may even start questioning their destiny, their very life. “Why is my life so miserable?” “Why is my life full of sorrow?” “Why must it be me?” and many more. With these, one may become pessimistic, not able to control the emotions as good as he used to, and possibly, offending the people around, like the saying, “a pain in the ass”. Yes, we do need a listener when we are at the worst, but not in such way that we look at the worst outcome 24/7, because people would get tired listening to the same thing, over and over again.