Sunday, August 10, 2008

Reasons to Love

Very often, we tend to ask ourselves the reason why and always, we would ask others the exact same question. Why tears? Why love? Why here? Among friends, we have people who wonder about the reasons for a person to care, to not give up and to fight hard; in family, we have those who asking why not home early, why not in time and why not love; between the lovers, we have them wanting to know the root to loving, to care and to miss. Reason seems to be important in the current days, where people can hold on to it in order to convince themselves, remind themselves, telling themselves that someone actually cares. An article was written, telling us that reasons are not needed to love. If we love a person’s smile, does that not mean we stop loving when he no longer does? If we attracted by one’s movement, does that not mean we would retrieve our love when he no longer able to do so with him lying down in bed, not moving at all? If we love one particular person who cares about us, does that not mean we love him no more when he is not there to show us? True enough, there are times where love is unexplainable, indescribable and yet demanding, where the unreasonable love seems to be happening only in the fairytales, where the reasons hold true to existence or it would simple be unrealistic. All reasons given are evidences; to prove that we are right or wrong, to show that it is happening right here and now, to tease one and another. Perhaps they are needed for one to love a person more, to keep one on track, a proof to love, a reason to care; answer to why reasoning is taken into account to love. Still, there is a fairytale in each and every one of us, where we run free with our thoughts, love one with all our hearts and to give no reasons for once.