Monday, October 13, 2008

Clarification

Doubts, questions and wonders; where we want clarification to be made and yet not able to do so due to variety of reasons, hence, leaving it aside, hoping it will soon be over with. A misconception which many still apply daily as we are not brave enough to do what it takes in order to achieve what we wanted most, not to mention we couldn’t bear the pain and misery it might bring us at the very end. During the process of doubting the person we love, questioning the people we care for and wondering what might come up next which would simply kill the relationships we are currently in, we tend to be sensitive and overreact at times, where more questions will be asked, more doubts coming to the surface and more wonders would be taking over our heads. How does a clarification occur? Does it truly clarify all things which have come across our minds? Personally, not all doubts can be eliminated, not all questions will be answered and certainly not all wonders would remain to be, if we ourselves fail to accept the way as it is and overcoming it. “Problems which cannot be solved are not problems,” quoted from a wise teacher. Hence, clarification occurs only when we are able to talk things out, when we choose to share all the relative wonders and doubts, when we are able to solve the problems.