Monday, October 13, 2008

Category of Advices

Dozens of methods there are, to boost our studies and careers; many advices given, in the sense of encouragements and opinions. Perhaps we know what we are doing and what should be done, or maybe we simply don’t, while the others seem to always think that we have no clue on what we are going through and that, is when the nagging comes in, where we find annoyance and impatience. Some may say there is no harm in listening to the advices, as it is not a necessity to apply if we find them inappropriate; some might be thinking that the third parties know nothing about our situations, hence not see the reasons why we even bother to listen; and some on the other hand would take the advices as the guide to success, for those are the summaries of lifetime experiences and ventures. At the very end of the day, it is us who decide what to do and which to apply, does not matter whether we agree to what the others have to say and it is us who are to bear the outcomes of our decisions being made, be it in the long run or short. How we categorize each type of advices depending on how we look at it and who that person is, if we are to accept it.