Unwanted incident happens, though it can always be avoided
when precautions are taken. Nevertheless, it requires both parties to work
mutually only then accidents can be prevented, instead of just one. Taking car
accident as an example, one person may be a safe driver and always look out for
possible danger on the road, but, accident still occurs when another individual
who is drunk and fails to stop eventually hit the car of that particular person.
Putting who-is-at-fault issue aside, no one wanted to be involved in any car
wrecks from the very beginning, but with only one side taking the precaution to
avoid undesired incidents taking place is not sufficient enough to actually prevent
accidents from happening. It is our responsible to make sure things are on
track, to push ourselves further for the better and to accept the outcomes of
the decisions made. However, people interpret the term ‘responsibility’
differently; dealing with the circumstances of previous choices made, blaming
oneself for the occurrence of unwanted incidents, improving for the better in
ensuring one’s success et cetera. Certainly, some may see all the actions
mentioned above as a whole, as it fits onto the common senses we develop
overtime on how to be responsible for the options taken, but for sure there is
the one particular act which we prefer or tend to be engaged in. One important
question lies within our responsibility and that is; what is the main reason we
choose to be responsible over our actions? Do we do it for the sake of
accepting the fact that it has already happened? Does our responsibility mean
we acknowledge our fault and get upset? Or do we improvise and figure a better
ways of solving problems in case something similar takes place again in the
near future? Getting stuck in the past does not bring us forward, neither does
spending whole day wondering about future helps improving ourselves, but only
when we realise the present and come up with a proposal to how things should be
done that we can and able to change our lives, hence marching towards brighter future.
