Thursday, July 23, 2009

Holding On

Have you ever come across the moments where people tend to come back to the same question over and over again even though it is less significant compared to many others? Personally have made such mistake in a forum, or perhaps I should say, the very first time I notice such behavior of mine, of people in general. Could it be our focus which is wrongly placed? Could it be our determination of getting our questions answered? Could it be our will to prove our assumptions and guesses right? Sometimes we need reminders in order to recall our main purpose of asking questions and sometimes we don’t. Sometimes we need people to tell us how meaningless our questions are even if they are answered and sometimes we just ignore the fact that they really do and try to cover them up. Perhaps it is just us who decided to ask every single question so that we do not have to use our brain to figure out every single little detail on our own. Perhaps it is just us who wanted to know more about one particular person or task and not showing how much we do not know. Perhaps it is simply just us who wanted to show off with what we have known to those we hope and assume they don’t. Sometimes holding on to a question does not mean everything will be solved in a blink of an eye, neither does it mean people wouldn’t notice how much we want to know nor it actually matters, for sometimes we just got to let it go and be freed.