Transparency

It s to say that all lovers must be true to each other, in the sense of sharing every single little detail which has taken place in life, being the so called transparent, be it spiritually or emotionally. Personally, it is unlikely to happen, as we are biased in nature and tend to leave out the little information here and there. We summarize, but it doesn’t mean we are good at it, or perhaps I should say, we include only the details which may benefit us, in a way that we can or cannot imagine. To be emotionally true, we must first share the feelings from the bottom of our hearts, but when is our true feeling shown? Is it when we are overwhelm by emotions and loosing our heads? Or is it the time where we are cool and able to think straight? We are told to share all past, present and future, but how many would reveal their darkest secrets which have been hidden for ages? There is this fear planted in us, not wanting to share everything just yet, for we are feeling uncertain and insecure, not knowing where the path we’ve chosen would lead us to, not knowing whether the things would change between us and that special someone, not knowing how long it can last.