No pain, no gain; every obstacle leads to a decision made and every heartache brings us to a whole new level. We may or may not have learned our lessons after every lie and disappointment, but we would have a rough idea on dealing the following challenges coming right up. Every now and then, we might get ourselves into such mess that we'd probably never have imagined ourselves to be; not knowing how to deal with it, not wanting to accept the fact that it is happening to us and hoping it would end as soon as possible. However, there are times where we clean up the mess others have left us instead of the ones we've caused. Perhaps it is just us who are not willing to take the responsibility of whatever we've let our hands on, or perhaps we are simply being the so called considerate and kind of helping others. Nevertheless, not noticing our own problems and the mess we've caused many others are one of our habits by nature; the reason why we did not take note of our weaknesses in the first place and why there are the countless mess still.
