"Which type of guy would be your ideal partner?" a friend asked. "Ever since primary, I've already set a goal, that my girlfriend must be active in sports and smart." another friend said. Sometimes I wonder, is their type of partner somebody who they admire? Or someone they truly in love with? People may say, setting yourself a goal is something to keep you moving on in life, as you know where to head to and what to do. But relationship? Probably due to personal preference. Some want to handle it rationally, some go according to their feelings and some, go with the flow. Personally, placing an aim in such indescribable 'incident' may causes us missing the right one, or even, misinterpret our own feelings.