When a person secretly adores someone else, he will be an admirer. If he dares not take actions yet asking dozens and dozens of questions from people around, it will be nothing but annoying. An annoying admirer. Let's say he does not believe the person he is going after already in a relationship, thus starts investigating, he will be downgraded. From an admirer to a stalker. A stalker who most people dislike. If we don't take actions but only use the mouth, nothing will come out of it. However, if we overdo it, we won't get what we want either.
