Monday, October 5, 2009

Yes or No



Came across this topic during the conversation with a friend just the other day; making decision. What’s more to say? We are required to choose from time to time, to decide on the next move as we play the game of life and often come to a point where we are in dilemma, not knowing what to do next. I was told that most of the decisions I made were as simple as ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Come to think of it, isn’t that the way? Even if we are to choose in between two options, all we have to do is to say ‘yes’ to one and ‘no’ to another. Worse come to worst, we’ll just take the non-taken path as back up plan. Perhaps many would argue that it is to easier to say than to be done. Yes, we may have different considerations on the options presented in sight; nevertheless, after filtering the thoughts and concern, comparing the pros and cons, we would still come down to the one and only decision available, which is taking the best choice given and ignore the others. If we find this too easy and simple, then think again, why must we make things complicated when we can choose not to? Complicating the situations doesn’t help a person to be better in making decision, nor making him more mature looking and wise. On the contrary, it makes things worse, when we have too much thinking in our heads especially.