Once consoled a person saying, "If you say nobody ever care about you, then who am I?" Typical phrase, isn't it? That wasn't the end of the conversation. "You are doing this because she asked you to, not on your free will, nor do you actually mean it!" Followed up by a moment of silence. A hammer it was, hit at the back of the head and woke up from the so called role play. Similar acts are no longer spotted ever since. Lesson was learnt back then, for we must be true to ourselves and the others, whenever we want to console a person. If we ourselves couldn't stay true, what's more to be expected from the rest? Not to mention that particular person might realise we do not actually mean what we've said. So, what's the point doing so? If we don't mean it.